7 Steps On How To Run Away From Your Stalker:
1) Pay attention to what halls or places you usually see him/her in. Do your best to avoid these areas, even if it means taking an alternative route. If you can, walk by a police station, as this will deter the stalker from following you. Change your route often so they will not expect to see you in the same place every day.
2) Make sure you have a way to spot them from a distance. If you see them, memorize their shirt color and be on the lookout for it.
3) If you have a distinct feature try doing something that you usually don't so he might not see you, i.e. if you have long hair, get it cut. Walk with a friend to ward off any possible attacks.
4) If they send you mail, find out the return address. If there is none, you can take it to the police, and have them check for fingerprints, so you can identify who this person is.
5) If you know you are being stalked, and this person often sends you letters/notes, or anything really, keep a record of it. Keep letters in a file, and possibly a list of other things you have received from your stalker. It may sound silly, but essentially, what you are doing is building up evidence for a potential court case, should it come to that. Also, in case anything should happen to you, you will have a record of your stalker's behavior for others to find.
6) Try and talk to the person or make eye contact, perhaps they are afraid to talk to you or are trying to hurt you. If they stare at you and you don't know who the hell this person is, get to know them, or precede to the next step.
7) If this person comes up to you and recites personal things, ignore him/her. Go to the nearest supermarket(i.e. Wal-mart) and buy some mace, but use it only as a last resort. When this person is starting to make you feel uncomfortable, warn them that if they do this anymore, you will call the cops. Give them a squirt with your pepper spray, because you warned them and you're really getting tired of it. Call the cops if they persist after that.
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